YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR DESTINY
The mind becomes that which contemplate upon steadily. By feeling what we contemplate upon we accelerate the process.
It is only a matter of constant practice and time.
The most important factors of our evolution are the associations and relations we keep and the impressions and thoughts we permit to enter in our mind.
If you constantly think about the defects of others you will develop these defects.
If you constantly think about the virtues of others you will develop these virtues.
So If you contemplate constantly on peace your mind will become peaceful. If you contemplate on courage you will develop courage. If you contemplate on confidence you will develop self-confidence etc..
If you constantly think of God with love you become God.
Meditation on Mahavakhyas By Swami Sivananda
TAT TVAM ASI / 'That you are' ~ Atman Nityananda